7 Incredible Tips to Recover from Burnout

Signs of Burnout and 7 Incredible Tips to Recover

Monica Hoss
Psychotherapist 

MSc Psychology 

In today’s fast-paced world, burnout is becoming increasingly common, but often misunderstood. Many people push through stress and exhaustion, believing it's normal. But burnout is more than just feeling tired. It’s a serious emotional, mental, and physical condition that can affect your well-being, relationships, and quality of life.

Let’s explore the real signs of burnout and 7 powerful, therapist-approved ways to recover and reclaim your energy.

 what is burnout?

Burnout is a state of chronic stress that leads to physical and emotional exhaustion, reduced performance, and a sense of detachment. It’s most commonly associated with work, but it can happen in any part of life—including caregiving, relationships, or even long-term stress.

According to the World Health Organization, burnout is an occupational phenomenon caused by:

• Feeling depleted or exhausted

• Mentally distancing from one’s job or tasks

• Reduced professional or personal effectiveness

 Commen signs of Burnout

If you're wondering whether you're experiencing burnout, look out for these warning signs:

• Constant fatigue, even after rest: You feel physically and mentally drained, no matter how much sleep you get.
• Loss of motivation: Things you used to enjoy now feel like a burden. You may dread tasks you once looked forward to.
• Emotional numbness or irritability: You might feel detached, cynical, or quick to anger, even with loved ones.
• Difficulty concentrating: Burnout can make it hard to focus, make decisions, or complete simple tasks.
• Sleep problems: Trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking up feeling unrested is very common.
• Physical symptoms: Headaches, stomach issues, muscle tension, and frequent illnesses may appear as your body struggles to cope.
• Feeling helpless or stuck: You might feel like no matter what you do, nothing changes—leading to hopelessness.

 7 incredible tips to recover from burnout

Burnout recovery doesn’t happen overnight, but with small, intentional changes, healing is possible. Here are seven tips I often share in therapy with clients recovering from burnout:

1. reconnect with your inner peace through therapy 

Burnout may pull you away from your natural state of calm. Therapy offers a grounded, professional space where you can begin to reconnect with yourself—beyond the chaos of daily life. In each session, you’ll slow down, reflect, and identify what’s truly draining your energy. This clarity is the first step towards inner peace. With consistent support, therapy helps you realign your mind and emotions, so you can begin to feel centred and whole again.The first step is recognising that you’re burned out, and that it’s okay. Burnout isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s your body and mind asking for care.

2. Set clear boundaries 

Start saying “no” to things that deplete you. Limit work outside office hours and carve out time that’s just for you—without guilt.

3. rebuild your routine around rest 

Schedule recovery time the same way you schedule meetings. Include naps, quiet time, walks in nature, or simply doing nothing.

4. practice mindfulness 

Daily mindfulness, deep breathing, or short meditations help calm your nervous system and bring you back to the present.

5. reconnect with joy 

Do something small each day that makes you smile. Art, music, journaling, or reconnecting with someone you love can reignite emotional energy.

6. nourish your body 

Eat well, stay hydrated, and move gently—like stretching, yoga, or walks. Your body is your foundation for healing.

7. seek professional support 

You don’t have to navigate burnout alone. A licensed therapist can help you process your experience, build resilience, and create a personalized plan to recover.

final thoughts: you deserve to feel better

Burnout can feel isolating—but it’s more common than you think. You are not broken. You are simply in need of rest, care, and support. With time, compassion, and the right tools, you can heal.

I offer a safe and supportive space to explore what’s been weighing you down and help you rediscover your calm. By online therapy sessions, you can access support wherever you are.

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If you're feeling overwhelmed, emotionally drained, or disconnected from the things you used to enjoy, you're not alone, and there is a path to healing.

ready to begin your journey? 

Book a free consultation today and take the first step towards feeling like yourself again.

Monica Hoss
Psychotherapist
MSc Psychology 

Website: https://www.calm-therapy.net/

Online & Face -to -Face Therapy sessions
calmtherapy14@gmail.com

Individual, Couple/ Family Therapist, and supervisor.

Best of luck, Cheers,

A supervisor and Fellow registered member of  The ACCPH here

Member ID #2822
Level: Fellow Accredited Member

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10 Incredible Ways to Overcome the Challenges of Being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)

 In today's fast-paced world, being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) can often feel overwhelming. HSPs, characterised by their deep processing of emotions, heightened empathy, and sensitivity to sensory stimuli, can find it challenging to navigate the daily barrage of stimuli and emotions. However, being highly sensitive is not a flaw; it's a unique trait that comes with its own set of strengths. The key lies in understanding and managing this sensitivity effectively. Here are some strategies to help HSPs thrive:

  1. Embrace Your Sensitivity

The first step to overcoming the challenges of being an HSP is to embrace your sensitivity. Recognize that your heightened awareness and deep emotional experiences are valuable traits. This self-acceptance forms the foundation for developing strategies to manage your sensitivity positively.

  2. Set Boundaries

HSPs often struggle with setting boundaries, leading to feelings of overwhelm and burnout. Learn to say no when necessary and create a safe space for yourself. Communicate your needs clearly to others and prioritize self-care. By setting boundaries, you protect your emotional and mental well-being.

  3. Practice Mindfulness and Meditation

Mindfulness and meditation can be powerful tools for HSPs. These practices help you stay grounded and present, reducing anxiety and overstimulation. Regular meditation can also enhance your emotional resilience, helping you respond to stressors more calmly.

  4. Develop a Support System

Surround yourself with understanding and supportive people. Share your experiences with trusted friends or family members who respect your sensitivity. Joining support groups or online communities for HSPs can also provide a sense of belonging and understanding.

  5. Create a Sensory-Friendly Environment

Your physical environment can significantly impact your well-being. Design a living and working space that minimizes sensory overload. This might include reducing clutter, controlling noise levels, and incorporating calming elements like soft lighting and natural materials.

  6. Prioritise Self-Care

Self-care is crucial for HSPs. Ensure you get enough sleep, eat a balanced diet, and engage in regular physical activity. Activities like reading, journaling, or spending time in nature can also be incredibly restorative. Regularly carve out time for activities that recharge you.

  7. Learn to Manage Your Emotions

HSPs often experience emotions intensely. Developing emotional regulation skills can help you manage these feelings more effectively. Techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, and cognitive-behavioral strategies can be beneficial.

  8. Seek Professional Help if Needed

If you find that your sensitivity is significantly impacting your daily life, consider seeking help from a therapist. A mental health professional can provide strategies tailored to your specific needs and help you develop coping mechanisms.

  9. Focus on Your Strengths

Being an HSP comes with unique strengths, such as creativity, empathy, and attention to detail. Focus on these positive attributes and find ways to leverage them in your personal and professional life. Celebrate your sensitivity as a gift rather than a burden.

  10. Educate Yourself and Others

Understanding the science behind high sensitivity can empower you and those around you. Educate yourself about the trait through books, articles, and research. Share this knowledge with friends, family, and colleagues to foster understanding and support.

  Final Thoughts

Overcoming the challenges of being a Highly Sensitive Person is about recognising and harnessing your sensitivity rather than trying to suppress it. By embracing your unique traits and implementing strategies to manage your sensitivity, you can lead a fulfilling and balanced life. Remember, being sensitive is not a weakness but a powerful way to experience the world deeply and authentically. With the right tools and mindset, you can thrive as a Highly Sensitive Person.

Monica Hoss
Psychotherapist
Individual, Couple and Family Therapist, and supervisor.

Website: https://www.calm-therapy.net/

Online & Face -to -Face Therapy sessions
calmtherapy14@gmail.com

Best of luck, Cheers,

A supervisor and Fellow registered member of  The ACCPH here

Member ID #2822
Level: Fellow Accredited Member

**References:**

- Aron, E. N. (1997). *The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You*. Broadway Books.

- Zeff, A. (2004). *The Highly Sensitive Person's Survival Guide: Essential Skills for Living Well in an Overstimulating World*. New Harbinger Publications.

Summer Self-Care: 7 Essential Tips for a Blissful You

 Summer 🌞🌻 is the season of sun-kissed days, beach outings, and refreshing cold treats. However, as the temperature rises, it’s crucial to prioritise self-care to maintain a balanced life for enjoying the warmth and staying healthy. Here are seven essential tips for a blissful you this summer.

1. Stay Hydrated

Water is your best friend during the hot summer months. Dehydration can lead to fatigue, dizziness, and even heatstroke. Aim to drink at least 8-10 glasses of water a day. Infuse your water with slices of cucumber, lemon, or mint for a refreshing twist. Don’t forget to carry a reusable water bottle when you’re on the go!

2. Protect Your Skin

The sun’s rays can be harsh, leading to sunburns and long-term skin damage. Apply a broad-spectrum sunscreen with at least SPF 30, even on cloudy days. Reapply every two hours, especially if you’re swimming or sweating. Wear a wide-brimmed hat and sunglasses to protect your face and eyes.

3. Eat Light And Fresh

Summer is the perfect time to indulge in fresh fruits and vegetables. Opt for light, nutritious meals that are easy to digest. Salads, smoothies, and grilled vegetables are great choices. Seasonal fruits like watermelon, berries, and mangoes not only taste delicious but also help keep you hydrated.

4. Embrace Outdoor Activities

Take advantage of the longer days by incorporating outdoor activities into your routine. Whether it’s a morning jog, an evening bike ride, or a weekend hike, physical activity in nature boosts your mood and improves your overall well-being. Don’t forget to apply sunscreen and stay hydrated!

 5. Practice Mindfulness And Relaxation

Summer can also be a time to unwind and relax. Practice mindfulness through activities like yoga, meditation, or simply sitting in a park and enjoying the scenery. Taking time to relax reduces stress and rejuvenates your mind and body. Consider setting aside a few minutes each day for deep breathing exercises or a quick meditation session.

6. Keep Your Living Space Cool

A cool, comfortable living space can significantly improve your summer experience. Use fans or air conditioning to keep your home at a comfortable temperature. If you don’t have air conditioning, consider using blackout curtains to keep the sun’s heat out. Sleeping in a cool, dark room can improve the quality of your rest, ensuring you wake up refreshed.

7.Wear Comfortable Clothing

Choose lightweight, breathable fabrics like cotton and linen to stay cool. Loose-fitting clothes allow air to circulate and help prevent heat rashes and discomfort. Light-colored clothing reflects the sun’s rays, keeping you cooler than dark-colored clothes. Don’t forget to protect your feet with comfortable sandals or flip-flops.

Final Thoughts

Summer is a time to enjoy the outdoors and soak up the sunshine, but it’s important to take steps to ensure you’re taking care of yourself. By staying hydrated, protecting your skin, eating fresh foods, engaging in outdoor activities, practicing mindfulness, keeping your living space cool, and wearing comfortable clothing, you can enjoy a blissful and healthy summer. Prioritize self-care, and embrace the season with open arms and a joyful heart.

I'm here to help you heal and turn your pain into gain. You are not alone in this journey to feel calm, hope and power. Send me an email right away to begin your well-being journey.

counselling.calm@gmail.com

Best of luck, Cheers,

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Individual, Couple, and Family Therapist, and supervisor.

Online & Face -to -Face Therapy

A supervisor and Fellow registered member of  The ACCPH (Accredited Counsellors, Coaches, Psychotherapists and Hypnotherapists) here

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7 Incredible Ways to Start your journey to feel better today

Feeling emotional?

By: Monica Hoss
Psychotherapist

MSc Psychology

You may face emotional difficulties from time to time in life. Difficulties might frequently be the starting point of a path towards personal development. You don’t have to face tough times alone; in fact, maintaining your mental health is one of the most crucial aspects of leading a good and balanced life.

Feeling better doesn't have to be an elusive goal. While the road to well-being is a lifelong journey, there are practical steps you can take today to begin feeling better immediately. Here's a guide to help you kickstart your journey to a healthier, happier you. 

  

1. Prioritise Self-Care

Self-care is the foundation of well-being. It involves taking deliberate actions to maintain your physical, mental, and emotional health.

 Physical Self-Care

Exercise: Even a short walk can boost your mood and energy levels.

Nutrition: Opt for a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains. Avoid processed foods and excessive sugar.

Sleep: Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep per night. Create a relaxing bedtime routine to help you unwind.

 Mental Self-Care

Mindfulness: Practice mindfulness or meditation to reduce stress and increase focus.

Breaks: Take regular breaks during your day to avoid burnout. Step away from screens and give your mind a rest.

Connect: Spend time with loved ones or reach out to friends. Human connection is a powerful mood booster.

 Express: Write in a journal or talk to someone about your feelings. This helps to process and release emotions.

2. Set Realistic Goals

Setting goals can give you a sense of direction and purpose. However, setting realistic and achievable goals is crucial to avoid feeling overwhelmed.

 Start Small

 Choose one or two small goals to focus on. For example, commit to drinking more water or taking a 10-minute walk each day.

Celebrate your progress, no matter how small. Each step forward is a step toward feeling better.

Be Specific

Instead of setting vague goals like "exercise more," define specific actions like "go for a 20-minute jog three times a week."

3. Practice Gratitude

Gratitude can significantly impact your overall well-being. It shifts your focus from what’s lacking to what you have.

 Daily Gratitude Practice

Start a gratitude journal. Each day, write down three things you are thankful for.

Reflect on positive experiences before going to bed. This can improve your mood and help you sleep better.

4. Limit Negative Influences

Evaluate areas in your life that may be contributing to your stress or negativity.

Reduce Media Consumption

 Reduce time spent on social media if it makes you feel anxious or inadequate.

Opt for uplifting and positive content instead of doom-scrolling through negative news.

Avoid Toxic Relationships

Surround yourself with supportive and positive people. Distance yourself from those who drain your energy or bring you down.

5. Seek Professional Help 

Sometimes, self-help strategies are not enough, and that’s okay. Seeking professional help can be a crucial step in your journey to feeling better.

Therapy and Counselling

 A mental health professional can provide guidance and support tailored to your needs.

 Therapy can help you develop coping strategies and work through underlying issues.

6. Engage in Activities You Enjoy

Engaging in activities that bring you joy can provide an immediate boost to your mood and overall well-being.

Hobbies and Interests

Revisit hobbies you love or explore new interests. This can be anything from reading, painting, gardening, or cooking.

Volunteer for a cause you care about. Helping others can increase your sense of purpose and fulfillment.

7. Practice Patience and Self-Compassion 

Change doesn't happen overnight, and it’s essential to be patient with yourself.

Be Kind to Yourself

Recognise that it's okay to have bad days. Treat yourself with the same compassion you would offer a friend.

Avoid self-criticism. Celebrate your efforts and acknowledge that you are doing your best.

 Conclusion

Starting your journey to feeling better today is about taking small, actionable steps that contribute to your overall well-being. Prioritize self-care, set realistic goals, practice gratitude, limit negative influences, seek professional help when needed, engage in enjoyable activities, and practice patience and self-compassion. Remember, the journey is unique to you, and every step you take is towards a healthier, happier life. Begin today and embrace the positive changes that come your way.

As a skilled accredited counsellor and psychotherapist, I offer individual, couple, and family therapy sessions in a safe, confidential, and non-judgmental environment. With an academic master’s degree, I bring a wealth of expertise to my practice. Besides, training courses have given me a mature outlook in a professional field. I use my many years of real-world experience to help you overcome obstacles and become calm. 

Send me an email today to schedule your initial consultation and take the first step towards a happier, healthier you.

Monica Hoss 

Psychotherapist
MSc Psychology

Individual, Couple and Family Therapist, and supervisor.

Website: https://www.calm-therapy.net/

Online & Face -to -Face Therapy sessions
calmtherapy14@gmail.com

A supervisor and Fellow registered member of  The ACCPH here

Best of luck, Cheers,

Member ID #2822
Level: Fellow Accredited Member

7 Incredible Ways to Bolster Your Brain by Stimulating the Vagus Nerve

 In recent years, the vagus nerve has garnered significant attention for its role in maintaining overall health, especially brain health. The vagus nerve, the longest cranial nerve, extends from the brainstem to the abdomen, influencing various bodily functions, including heart rate, digestion, and immune response. Stimulating this vital nerve can lead to remarkable benefits for cognitive function and mental well-being. Here are seven incredible ways to bolster your brain by stimulating the vagus nerve.

 1. Practice Deep Breathing

Deep, diaphragmatic breathing is one of the simplest yet most effective ways to stimulate the vagus nerve. This technique increases parasympathetic activity, helping to calm the mind and enhance brain function.

How to do it:
- Sit comfortably with your back straight.
- Inhale deeply through your nose, allowing your abdomen to expand.
- Exhale slowly through your mouth.
- Repeat for 5-10 minutes daily.

                                                  Image: Unsplash

 2.Cold Exposure

Exposure to cold temperatures can activate the vagus nerve, promoting resilience and improving cognitive function. Cold showers, splashing cold water on your face, or even a dip in cold water can be beneficial.
How to do it:
- Start with a warm shower.
- Gradually decrease the temperature until the water is cold.
- Stay under the cold water for 30 seconds to 2 minutes.

  3. Meditate Regularly

Meditation, especially mindfulness and loving-kindness meditation, has been shown to enhance vagal tone. These practices reduce stress, improve emotional regulation, and boost brain health.

How to do it:

- Find a quiet space and sit comfortably.
- Focus on your breath or a mantra.
- Practice mindfulness by observing your thoughts without judgment.
- Meditate for 10-20 minutes daily.
“It turns out that many of the activities that we associate with calmness—things like deep breathing, meditation, massage and even the experience of awe—effect changes in the brain, in part, through increasing vagus nerve activity,” Vernon B. Williams, MD, sport neurologist at Cedars-Sinai

  4. Sing Or Chant

Singing, chanting, and even humming can stimulate the vagus nerve due to the vibrations produced in the vocal cords. These activities enhance mood and brain function.

How to do it:
- Sing your favorite songs.
- Chant a soothing mantra.
- Hum for a few minutes.

  5. Practice Yoga

Yoga combines physical postures, breathing exercises, and meditation, all of which can stimulate the vagus nerve. Regular practice can improve mental clarity and emotional stability.
**How to do it:**
- Join a yoga class or follow online tutorials.
- Focus on poses that encourage deep breathing and relaxation, such as Child’s Pose and Corpse Pose.
- Practice regularly to maximize benefits.

  6. Eat A Healthy Diet

Certain foods can enhance vagal tone and support brain health. Probiotics, omega-3 fatty acids, and anti-inflammatory foods are particularly beneficial.
How to do it:
- Include fermented foods like yogurt, kefir, and sauerkraut in your diet.
- Eat fatty fish, flaxseeds, and walnuts for omega-3s.
- Consume plenty of fruits, vegetables, and whole grains.

 7. Practice Social Connection

Strong social ties and engaging in positive social interactions can stimulate the vagus nerve, reducing stress and improving brain function.
How to do it:
- Spend quality time with family and friends.
- Engage in meaningful conversations.
- Participate in group activities or volunteer work.

  Conclusion

Stimulating the vagus nerve is a powerful way to enhance brain health and overall well-being. By incorporating these seven practices into your daily routine, you can experience improved cognitive function, emotional stability, and resilience against stress. Start small, be consistent, and enjoy the incredible benefits of a well-nourished brain.

I'm here to help you heal and turn your pain into gain. You are not alone in this journey to feel calm, hope and power. Send me an email right away to begin your well-being journey.

Individual, Couple and Family Therapist, and supervisor.

Online & Face-to-Face Therapy

counselling.calm@gmail.com

Best of luck, Cheers,

My profile on the PsychologyToday website. A supervisor and Fellow registered member of  The ACCPH (Accredited Counsellors, Coaches, Psychotherapists and Hypnotherapists) here

Member ID #2822
Level: Fellow Accredited Member

7 Incredible Tips That Teenagers Can Cope With Pressure

 

Have you ever had feelings of pressure? If so, you're not alone. If you are a teenager this article is specifically for you to cope with your mental crises and have more success in your life

Have Other People Experienced Pressure?

Generally, people experience stress in their life. Despite that, you can set goals to limit your daily stress. You're better equipped to tackle potential larger issues when you're less stressed out over minor inconveniences. However, excessive tension or stress that you can't handle prevents you from performing or enjoying your time. It may exhaust you.

 Is There A Way To Cope With Pressure?

Yes, there is. The following 7 tips will help you to improve your ability to handle your stress:

Stress can be brought on by daily life's annoyances, expectations, or difficulties. Your body produces hormones that give you more energy, concentration, and strength in response to stress. The fight-or-flight response is what this means. A slight increase in stress might occasionally be beneficial. It can assist you in completing tasks quickly, being punctual, or meeting a deadline. It may notify you of an issue that needs your attention. It may inspire you to achieve your objectives. It may encourage you to research, organize, and get ready.

The following 7 suggestions will assist you if you wish to improve your ability to handle regular stress:

1. Practice deep breathing. Take a few calm, deep breaths if you're feeling anxious or pressured. Your body's fight-or-flight (stress) reaction can be turned off with breathing. To assist you in reducing daily stress, try belly breathing or mindful breathing every day. Furthermore, Mindfulness is a way to help you experience a calm environment.

2. Eat healthy foods. Your diet has an impact on your metabolism, mood, and energy level. If you consume a lot of food, it doesn't mean you eat, well. Pick healthy foods for yourself. Generally, fast foods have fat, sweet or salt a lot. Instead of fast foods, you can eat your homemade foods with more vegetables. Also, hydrate yourself with drinking water a lot.

3. Make a daily program. If you want to keep an eye on your daily routine, use a calendar or planning tool on your phone, indicate the dates and hours of your classes, tests, and due dates for assignments. Include your pursuits. Set time to complete. Schedule time for your favorite activities. Stress can be decreased by having a strategy and an established schedule.

4. Sleep well. You might feel like staying up late after a hard day, perhaps you still have tasks to complete, or maybe you want some free time to spend with friends or your favorite programs. But you're more likely to experience stress from insufficient rest of the day if you don't have enough sleep. Enough rest and good Sleep can be beneficial for your mind and body.

5. Have daily exercise. When you exercise, play a sport, or dance to your favourite music, stress just goes away. More than just keeping you fit, exercise has other benefits. It can help you manage stress, reduce anxiety and sadness, and improve your mood.

6. Communicate with others. You are a social creature. You like to support and to be supported.  To feel supported, you need relationships with others mayo. Your well-being depends on developing a feeling of community, whether it is at work, with a religious group, or via shared pursuits like organised sports. Participating in a group activity enables you to build relationships and receive support at trying times. You may also help others, voluntarily and use your abilities, knowledge and skills. 

7. Ask for help. For many people, stress from assignments, grades, and examinations is a cause of tension. Keeping up with everything isn't always simple. Ask a teacher, parent, tutor, or mentor to act as your coach if you need assistance with exam preparation, preparing for projects, or simply getting things done.

I'm here to help you heal and turn your pain into gain. You are not alone in this journey to feel calm, hope and power. Send me an email right away to begin your well-being journey. 

Email: counselling.calm@gmail.com

Best of luck, Cheers,